It turns me on when a man is confident and knows what he wants... Especially if he wants me. It turns me on when a man makes me feel wanted and needed... without saying a word. A slight dominance, confident hands, a look that makes my knees tingle, and I'm all yours.
Turns Off
I don't like a commanding tone. I'm playing with someone who can feel, not order. If you don't know how to listen and only want what's yours, we're definitely not on the way. I don't like it when people forget that I'm a person, not just a picture. Respect and you will get more than you expect.