I'm turned on by foreplay, dirty flirting in public places, I'm a voyeur, having my nipples rubbed with their wet fingers, being shown who's in charge in and out of bed...It turns me on to be the submissive that I am.
Turns Off
It turns me off that they think sex is just going in and out of the vagina with their member, that they don't give me oral sex, that they don't know what foreplay is to warm up engines before the action, that they don't talk dirty to me and that they do things without my consent.