Feeling emotionally close to a partner can enhance arousal. Trust and comfort play a significant role in sexual desire. Compliments, gestures of love, and caring behaviors can increase feelings of attraction. Gentle and affectionate touching, including kissing and caressing... I guess i am simple :D
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Neglecting personal grooming or hygiene can be off-putting, unpleasant smells. Rushing into intimacy without proper foreplay or mutual consent