I find it exciting to obey gently and let myself be guided by someone who knows how to treat me with love, respect, and desire. When I feel safe and valued, I give myself completely... like a doll ready to please.
Turns Off
I completely shut down when I'm treated rudely, when my boundaries aren't respected, or when someone tries to impose their will without listening. Disrespect, rude or cold messages, and failure to value my commitment… kill all the magic.