Bright and cozy, with soft lighting, perhaps candles or garlands. A warm blanket, neat details, a little personal touch - so that everyone who stops by feels comfortable and relaxed.
Attention to detail, sincerity, confidence without being rude. I love it when a person knows how to listen, feels the mood and knows how to-create-a special atmosphere.
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Rude, intrusive and disrespectful. It is important for me to feel safe and easy to communicate with.