I've been apart of the kink community for over 10 years and I'm never leaving. I used to consider myself submissive but nothing about it felt right. I just couldn't see myself giving up all control to someone, especially someone I didn't know or form a strong bond with. Findom came into my life and its changed how I see myself. Vanilla life I'm an artist, tattoo apprentice, part time worker, dog mom, and loyal friend. I'm and introvert so majority of my time is spent online or with a small group of friends. I love all kinds of music [more]