You will find different types of sensual dances, I like to have control of the situation since seeing the subdued person is something exciting, I feel many emotions, BDSM is fascinating since well practiced it takes the excitement to the maximum.
I love seeing a man in shorts since it makes me curious and morbid, I like voyeurism since seeing him masturbate or being seen generates multiple sensations, sometimes I like that they cause me some pain and that they put pressure on my neck.